Is it wierd that this 40 almost 41 year old woman is interested in a 28 year old male?
There is this 40 year old woman that I met on yourube. She has aspergers syndrome as do I as well,
For the past 2 months I have sent her emails and text messages. She sends me 10 text messages per day. I currently live in the Los Angeles area and she lives in Portland,or.
I’m only 28 years old,
She keeps asking me over and over again when I coming to Portland,OR to visit her.
Currently I’m unemployed as I have been since May 2008. She has been unemployed since July 2008.
Currently I live at home with my parents. This woman lives alone. She said if I come to Portland and we get along she may offer me her living room couch to live on and not charge me. She wants to get me out of my parents house.
There are some things that I don’t like about her. She stopped going to school after 8th grade. At age 15 she got married and had a child. At age 17 she had another child. She didn’t raise her kids. Her grandma and father did.
Even though she is uneducated she has been able to have a stable employement history.
She worked for Mrryll Lynch for 4 years do home repossesment, In that job she worked at a call center and made $3,300 a month and got health insurance. Her job was to call people who were delinquint with their house payments. She had the people with deliquint payments fax her their checking account statements, credit card statements and car loans. If she felt that the people would be unable to make their mortgage payments she had the home taken away from them.
For myself I graduated college with a BA 5 years ago. Becuase of my
visable disability employers have descriminated against me. The only jobs I have had are retail jobs.
Does this sound like a good or poor match? I have never had a girlfriend before because of my visable disability.
This woman sounds very tolerant and feels that my differences don’t bother her.
My parents think this is a foolish idea to hook up with a woman who is 12 years older than me.
My disabilities are mild tourettes, mild cp, aspergers syndrome and a learning disability.
I have been driving my own car for 11 years.
I have never moved out of my parents house before.
My parents don’t want me to move to Portland.
They think I’m a fool as do my friends.
The age difference is not a worry so now it’s just down to you two getting along now. This could work out well for both but you will never know till you try. Go well.
Why would banking institutions do something like THIS?
Isn’t this the very kind of thing that gets consumers into trouble with credit? This seems very unethical to me!!
My bank went and upped my LOW CREDIT Visa from 11 percent to 19. They claim I “missed” my minimum payments when in fact I paid down each month.
When I actually CHECKED my statements I realized that the DUE DATE floats around each and every month….like it’s not due the 20th of each month, one month is the 17th, next the 21st….and even if it went in AFTER the due date it did not count as CREDIT towards the NEXT MONTHS minumum.
What a bunch of total frickin con-artists.
And before all the finger waggers get on board, my house is paid for long ago. Visa is the only debt we have and chit happens you know? Kids need braces, cars break down, roofs leak, yadda yadda.
In the US, the banks were given a special pass to the credit market and no nice way to say, screw over the people. Credit companies are jacking up rates, changes rates, adding fees,used to charge high rates for those that filed bankruptcy,now, the money has to be paid back and people cannot keep their homes either! There were a couple candidates running for office that favored this, Clinton,Edwards and of course the Republicans and they are exactly why they did not get in office. Then put unequal trade into that ands a perfect recipe for losing your job and home. Congress just “passed a bill” to remedy this, it does not take effect for 19more billing cycles! Kind of late for the ones who are being subjected to these constant and current and continued changes! I m pissed. I had a rate that was 1.99, and it has never been late, and now I got something saying the rate is going up to at least 11% +prime. The payment is already almost 500! If they raise it, I m not sure, I could be done! I have greatt credit and I also did not use a card and the one back closed it, That ruins your credit score. JcPenny changed my due date is is forever giving me an ongoing headache with my bill, I pay if off in full every month they just add extra and change amounts of purchases, too much to go into. They are crooked. They have pakistan do billing and you cannot get anyone to really help you. I will not buy nay thing anymore from them . Other banks are also sending billling over seas. No wonder we need to worry about identiy theft, who is governing them!
Con artist is right, and they get these extravagant favors from government, I believe the term if lobbyist. People need to demand that governement that permitted this change in ethics make it stop! Bush and deregulation and his friends on wall street as well as the Republicans that helped the ones at the top get their pay packages and profits. This is not sour grapes, it is truth. It is one of the reasons I am into writing letters, but it needs to go beyond that, people have to take involvement and action. No one is unaffected, it is why I often get my questions deleted, no one wants the truth, they think it is a violation to inform people of the mess that is still unfolding and costing many plenty. Yet in the US, thanks again to Bush and his corruption that also has many judges that will not be going anywhere, 2/3left will make decisions, that are not going to favor, anyone but the same crooks that are and have helped this mess, and with no recourse. No right to sue. Hello, In other words no right for accountability. The disaster of this, it does not just affect the US, but the rest of the world, These banks, are not actually or primarily owned by anyone in the US but around the world .Yeah so there is much that all the soldiers for the far right and conservative compassionism fail to realize that it is not about lazy low life deadbeats, but about permitting and helping corruption to flourish while “thinking” that they are “supporting” good morals, ah as if they have any-the ones “responsible”
Great question, the answer:, because they can! High profits at the stock market. Another grand illussion sigh,,,…. But thanks!
Oh one more thing! They are also reducing people lines to say they are now oever the limit, which also enables them to raise rates add fee etc, The problem is that is can and is happening to many, I gues when it hits the billion dollar babies, then it will stop!
Question regarding monthly bank statements – print out of front and back of cashed checks?
Hello, when I get my monthly bank statements, I can see the copy of the front and back of my checks that were cleared the previous month. But there’s a mortgage payment that gets cashed, but instead of seeing the print out of the front and back of that cashed check, I see a print out on my monthly bank statements that says things like:
DES Check Payment # xxxx
Co ID: xxxx
I need proofs that these mortgage payments were paid.
My bank is currently closed since today is Sunday.
Does anyone know why for this particular mortgage payment, I don’t get to see the front and back of the cashed checks.
Will my bank have a copy of the front and back if I request for them? Thanks.
Most likely, the mortgage company DIDN’T cash your check. They can legally convert it to an electronic transaction. The information on your statement IS your proof. If is the legal equivalent of a copy of the check.
Question about Bank Statements used for Mortgage?
I have two issues at hand. I can get a VOD for my bank account but the company we are getting a mortgage with wants a bank statement from the last thirty days. Getting a statement from June isn’t likely as June isn’t over. I can print off pages from online banking but they don’t have account numbers on them. Am i correct in assuming that is not suitable? Secondly, I’m worried because there are two overdrafts from two weeks ago because I made a mathematical error after my husband neglected to tell me he had spent some money. There were no bounced checks as it was a debit card transaction. Am I correct in thinking this is going to kill any chances of getting a loan? The loan is VA, for 73,500 dollars, no collections or lates in the last two years, only other debt is 459 a month on a car note and we make about 3400 a month. The seller has agreed to pay closing costs. We can also prove we have paid on rent on time up to 4 years. I’ve been eating a lot of tums and the stress might put me in pre-term labor.
Verification of Deposits can usually only be printed and mailed or obtained in a branch. I’m not sure an overdraft will affect anything, most banks usually use it to verify deposits/assets.
Can we get approved for a mortgage if we are missing some documentation?
My husband is a painter. A little over a month ago, the company he was working for (owned by 2 brothers) decided to split up and each start their own business. His boss needed the past month or so to get the new business up and running, set up the payroll, etc., so my husband has been getting paid by the boss just cutting him a check (not a documented regular pay stub). We were pre-approved for a mortgage and now are ready to buy a house (settle on March 31) and the mortgage company needs the past 30 days of pay stubs. My husband won’t receive his first “real” pay check/stub from the new company until the first week of March. Are we going to be denied for our mortgage b/c we don’t technically have pay stubs for him for the past 30 days (just documentation on our bank statements of his boss’s checks that he paid him with)?? I still have documentation for my income. We are very concerned and don’t want to lose this house!
Have them do a print out on their company letterhead
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